Welcome to the NEW The Frugal Find


I want to Welcome You to the New Frugal Find!

From the bottom of my heart, I want to Thank You for stopping by and supporting The Frugal Find. It’s because of you that I have found a passion that I wouldn’t have otherwise have found. I strive to help you live your best Frugal Lifestyle possible and with this New Frugal Find it will help me do it better!

I ask for your help during this time. If you see something that isn’t working properly, a deal you landed or one that has expired, if you would like to see something on the site itself changed, PLEASE  let me know. You can leave me comment on the blog or on The Frugal Find Facebook page or send me an email to Deals@TheFrugalFind.com.

There are several changes that needed to be made and I’ve struggled with doing it, because I did not want to upset you. But, in the end, I knew in my heart that the blog needed this change in order to reflect me and my personality. There will be more “steps” in this process of the new website  and we are going to be focusing on buttoning up the “new” look and then making changes to make the site run faster. Please bear with the inevitable glitches that can happen during these growing pains!


The “New” Frugal Find ~ It’s About to Happen!

You might remember that a few weeks ago The Frugal Find’s site went down. We immediately jumped into emergency mode and with the help of Marci and Candace (thank you, ladies!), we were able to get the blog up and running again. However, it soon became apparent that the site needed some major work done in order for this not to happen again. And realizing that this meant changing it up significantly, I decided to “go for it” and do a complete overhaul.

I initially thought the new design would be ready in a matter of a few days, but this was wishful thinking. It takes a lot of work, planning and designing to come up with a new blog. But thanks to my right hand Marci (your are awesome!) and my great designer Laura, we are now just days away from unveiling the new “The Frugal Find”.

You will see a slightly different layout of the categories and tabs. But don’t worry, all of the information is still there. If you are having trouble finding something, please let me know and I will point you in the right direction. Also, if you find something that isn’t quite working or if you have any suggestions to make the site even better, I welcome all your feedback :)

I thought it would be kind of fun to include a mascot in the new design, and after searching high and low I settled on the most adorable baby red fox you’ve ever seen. There is something about the look on this young fox cub’s face that made me fall in love with her. If you would like to see her before the official unveiling, check out TFF’s Facebook page and look at the new profile picture. Oh, and we will be having a contest to name her! Stay tuned …

You might be wondering why I chose a fox, so let me explain. When I moved from Guatemala to Boulder almost 6 years ago I remember seeing a fox in my backyard taking a nap. This was my first time to ever see one in the wild and I was  thrilled and excited beyond words. So when I came across the picture of the red fox cub in a basket, it brought back a flood of memories.

Fox in garden -crop

Fox in my yard!

You see, so many things have happened since August 2008 … My marriage fall apart after almost 20 years. My father’s health has declined significantly. My dog Rex who I loved more than words can say passed away.

However, some good things have happened as well. My son Phillip graduated from high school, took a gap year and is now  enrolled in college. He is now an amazing young adult who has been such a rock and always there for me. My daughter Annette has blossomed from a child into a lovely kind and caring teenage girl that any parent would be proud of. I have made new amazing friends who have been there to support me through all these big changes. I did a complete 180° in my career when I started running this blog. I could go on and on, but I don’t want to bore you.

Phillip Annette UWP- crop

My children ♥

So in a nutshell, what all this has taught me is that you should be open and flexible for change. I had been afraid of change until I realized that this fear was limiting so many aspects of my life. Once I decided to let go of my fears, everything  fell into place and I haven’t looked back. So I would encourage you to reflect on your own life. Question yourself often and make sure you are living your life to it’s full potential.  I came across this quote by Bob Marley that really sums it up so I will leave you with this final thought to keep in mind:

“Love the Life you Live, Live the Life you Love” ~ B.M

I truly hope you will love the new “The Frugal Find” as much as I do.



TFF is back online!

Good morning!

I am so excited that we have the website running again. The blog had some major technical issues that were just resolved a few minutes ago.

It was so frustrating that I couldn’t even log on to let you all know what was going on. If you follow me on Facebook, you probably saw my updates. Unfortunately there was no way to update the main page of the blog in order to let everyone else know what was happening.

The good news is that I can start publishing new deals again. And I will also unveiling a brand new look in a few days. I am so excited :)  I’ve been wanting to do this for a while now, and this glitch  we had a few days ago was the push I needed to make that big step.

Thank you for understanding, and stay tuned for some changes in the days to come!




The Best April Fools Prank

April Fools is quickly approaching. My daughter has begun plotting her pranks and I can wait to see what her antics are this year. What is the Best April Fools Prank that you have pulled or someone has pulled on you?

I’m excited to read your comments and see if we can help each other out with the Best April Fools Prank this year!

10 Foods to Never Feed Your Dog

We all love our pets and want to do our best to take care of them to the best of our ability. Sometimes foods can be overlooked and a small piece of food we share could be very harmful to our furry friends. However, there are lots of foods to never feed your dog.

I have a neighbor who you used to train her pup by rewarding him with M&M’s. I was surprised to hear that she had no idea that chocolate is a no-no for dogs! And just the other day I was at the vets and a puppy who had snuck into the picnic basket and eaten grapes had to have his stomach pumped…poop pup!

So potentially harmful foods are all around us. I thought it would be good to share a list with our readers just in case there are items on this list that you had no idea were dangerous to feed your pup. Some might be seem like common sense (like alcohol), but others might be news to you.

So here’s the top 10 foods (and beverages)  that you should never – ever – give your dog.

10 Foods to Never Feed Your Dog:

  1. Alcohol
  2. Artificially Sweetened Foods
  3. Avocados
  4. Chocolate
  5. Coffee/Tea
  6. Dough
  7. Garlic and Onions
  8. Fatty Foods
  9. Grapes/Raisins
  10. Macadamia Nuts

Also, we have a great post containing a DIY Homemade Dog Food Recipe with completely safe ingredients. And with all the dog food recalls happening lately – more and moree are turning to homemade DIY foods!

Kendall Rayburn
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Grandparents Poem

This Grandparents Poem is in memory of my grandparents who were amazing people, all four of them. I was blessed with having my grandmother around for 100 years! She was sweet, loving and kind up until the day she passed away.


Grandparents are special people
with wisdom and pride.
They are always offering love and kindness
and are always there to guide.
They often make you feel
so confident and strong.
Their arms are always open
no matter what you did wrong.
They try to help out
in every way that they can.
They love all their grandchildren
the same whether you’re a child, woman or man.
They are always there to listen
and to lend a helping hand.
They show you respect
and they try to understand.
They give their love, devotion and so much more,
that’s easy to see.
what perfect examples
of the kind of person that we should be.

~By Stacy Smith~

You can print this off and let your children give to their Grandparents for Grandparents Day on September 7, Mothers or Father’s Day or just because…it’ll melt their heart!

Help! The lid of my Pyrex is stuck half way. Has this happened to you?

Do you own one of those neat pyrex bowls that have a glass lid with a rubber vent? I bought one a few months ago and have loved using it. However, the other day I was re-heating some rice and the lid got sucked INTO the pyrex and got stuck! I’m not sure why this happened but I’m guessing I didn’t open the vent enough or maybe the lid was off center to begin with?! Whatever it was, I sure wasn’t expecting to find this when I opened the microwave door.

I really needed to use the rice for our lunch, so I went ahead and scraped it out and figured I would be able to dislodge the lid afterwards. Boy was I wrong! I tried gently pulling trying to ease the lid out. No such luck. I tried with a knife, thinking that if I wedged it between the lid and the container, I could somehow manage to get it out. Nope! I used all my strength up to the point when I thought I might break the lid, the bowl or both. But that darn lid is still stuck in the bowl, like this:


I have tried everything I can think of to get this lid out, but as you can see, nothing has worked. Before I throw out the pyrex I thought I would give it one last chance and ask you if have any thoughts on how to solve my problem? PLEASE if you have an idea of what I can do, send me a comment. I will try anything (within reason). I will let you know how it goes and hopefully post pictures of my pyrex without the lid permanently attached!

40 Date Night Questions for Married Couples

40 Date Night Questions for Married Couples

Date Night Questions for Married Couples

Have you ever scheduled a night out (or date night in?) and looked across the table and couldn’t think of a thing to talk about? In my experience, the conversation usually revolves around the kids, the family, work, house, etc. These talks are necessary, for sure, but sometimes it’s nice to be transported away and think of more personal/intimate things!

This is a list of questions that you might want to consider asking each other on your next date night with your spouse. If some of these don’t apply (or you think they will start a controversial conversation), then don’t use it :)  You could play a game of calling out random numbers and then take turns answering the question. Once you get into the flow, conversation will be a lot easier and the evening out (or in) will feel a lot more relaxing and fulfilling!

  1. Where was our first kiss?
  2. What is my dream vacation?
  3. What was my best childhood memory?
  4. What street did I grow up on?
  5. What’s my favorite movie?
  6. What’s my first memory of you?
  7. What are my top five favorite recipes, listing in order?!?
  8. What kind of gift(s) do I like to receive?
  9. What kind of toppings do I like on my pizza?
  10. What do I fear the most?
  11. What is my biggest accomplishment?
  12. What is my dream(s) in life?
  13. What is my weakness?
  14. What is my most favorite memory from when we were dating?
  15. What do I look forward to the most?
  16. What is my favorite day of the week?
  17. What do I do that irritates you?
  18. What do I enjoy doing with you?
  19. What 5 things can I always count on you for?
  20. What frightens me about the future?
  21. How can I make your life easier?
  22. What desires or wishes do you have that I can fulfill?
  23. What personal trait(s) do I have that you would like changed?
  24. What area(s) in life do you seek my support?
  25. How much one on one time do you need from me each day?
  26. Are we prepared for the future? If not, how can we become prepared?
  27. What is your greatest motivation for getting up every morning and going to work?
  28. What do you see in other marriages that you’d like for us to do?
  29. What are your favorite traits/qualities about me?
  30. What’s been weighing on your mind lately?
  31. What makes you feel great about yourself?
  32. What inspires you the most?
  33. What do you need from me romantically?
  34. What changes need to be made to our parenting?
  35. Are we setting a good example in our marriage for our children?
  36. What do you see for our retirement?
  37. What’s one place you’d like to visit in the next year?
  38. What three changes need to be made to our lives?
  39. How happy are you in our marriage?
  40. What do you need from me?

I am pretty sure that after asking only a few of these questions, you will be engrossed in conversation. At the end of the night I’m sure you will have learned quite a bit about your spouse that you didn’t know (or never thought of asking!).  If you have any date night suggestions or ideas, please share in the comments below.

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Are you getting the latest news from the Frugal Find? I have heard many of you are not seeing all the updates on Facebook…that’s because Facebook is limiting what you are seeing. The more you interact with us on The Frugal Find facebook page the more you will see from the page. So be sure to “like” and share what you enjoy. Plus, that gives us ideas of what similar deals we can post!

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What Does “Frugal” Mean To You?

Why We Chose a Frugal Lifestyle

I often struggle with finding a balance of being Frugal and paying retail because it’s just so much simpler. So I wanted to know your thoughts on What Does Frugal Mean?

I think we all all can agree that we often find ourselves going back and forth between 2 types of Frugal living. While they both are dear to my heart and both bring me joy life tends to get in the way and I loose my focus.

1. Frugal Living means making your own bread, avoiding the stores, cooking from scratch, reusing as much a possible, etc.

2. Frugal Living means shopping stores and stockpiling for free or as close to free as I can. Not to mention adding in the occasional Thrift Store or Garage Sale stop!

When trying to define Frugal in Wixipedia here’s what it comes up with: Frugality is the quality of being frugal, sparing, thrifty, prudent or economical in the use of consumable resources such as food, time or money, and avoiding waste, lavishness or extravagance.

Here’s how they also defined Frugal Living: Frugal living is mainly practiced by those who aim to cut expenses, have more money, and get the most they possibly can from their money.

So What Does Frugal Mean To You?

Things I Wish I Knew As a High-School Freshman

I am sixteen and growing, but I used to be thirteen and terrified. New friends, new school, college plans, deadlines… high school is a frightening time for most of us. The time I’ve had in these short years have shaped me more than I can even comprehend. I know that I am nowhere near done with my experiences and learning lessons, in fact, I’m at the thick of it all. I’m looking at colleges and majors and essentially I’m picking out the rest of my life before I can even legally drive my friends to Starbucks. Or at least that’s how it feels sometimes. I could fill every page in a library with the things I’ve had to learn since I first entered high school, but I won’t do that. I will, however, fill a few lines on this blog with what hopefully doesn’t turn out to be cliches and mom-like advice (no offense, Mom!)

Friends WILL come and go.

You’ve probably heard this many times, but I can attest to this. The only person you have at the end of the day is yourself, and that has to be enough. I spent several nights in a burrito of blankets with a bowl of ice cream in hand wondering why Friend A would say that to Friend B about me – what had I done? The answer is nothing. You can blame it on the Niagara Falls of hormones that seem to run rampant through the bodies of high schoolers or on the slow news day for the gossipping network, but that doesn’t change anything. Do not be afraid to up and leave at any time. But, we have bracelets that say Best Friends Forever, doesn’t that mean anything? It certainly can, but before you make that promise to yourself, you need to make a first agreement: never let yourself be treated poorly. Friends are only friends as long as you make each other mutually happy. You must be in control of your own life and your own happiness. Enjoy every moment with those who make good company, but embrace change if and when it comes knocking on your door.

Respect yourself.

Before I say another word, I must make clear: this does NOT mean what you’ve probably heard before: “Don’t kiss the boy with the tattoos!” “Cover yourself when going out!” “Always act like a lady!” You can, at the end of the day, do whatever you want to do. Respecting yourself means you must treat your mind and body well. You can eat as much cake and ice cream as your heart desires, but do not berate yourself for it. I learned that I have to talk to myself as I would to a dear friend. I used to catch myself talking to my body in a way that no one would ever want to be spoken to (we’ve reconciled since). Your heart beats about 103,680 times a day to make sure you can keep going. You owe it to yourself to do all you can to keep going, too.

Not everyone is going to like you, and that’s okay.

It used to be my mission to make sure that every person that I ever encountered at school or otherwise thought I was simply great. It was really stressful and time consuming trying to say the right things at the right times, but not to talk too much. I formed a type of list in my head of who I should approach whenever I saw them and who I shouldn’t speak to unless spoken to. It was a mind game of hundreds of names and faces, and I tried to remember what ticked people off, or what topics they loved to talk about. At the beginning of my sophomore year, I just completely stopped. I was getting exhausted and it wasn’t doing me much good. I came across a quote that has been in my head ever since I read it. “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there’s still going to be somebody who hates peaches”. Save yourself the trouble I went through, and don’t waste time on people who will not be a positive part of your life.

Chances are, you’re not going to know what you want to do any time soon.

I know, I know. High school is supposed to be all about dating the star quarterback while doing hours of service and also maintaining a 4.0 GPA and making plenty of lifelong friends. ALl the while, you’re supposed to figure out what you want to do for, wait for it, the rest of your life. Let me tell you something I never even considered in my early high school years: you have no obligations except to make yourself happy. Your parents will not be going to college for you, and your teachers won’t be there to do the work at a job they recommended that you absolutely despise. These years should be used to find yourself and think or talk about different options for your future. You honestly don’t even need to know what college you’re going to until the end of senior year. Do not let this stress you out. Instead, take a deep breath whenever you feel your anxiety level rising and commend yourself for the miles and miles you’ve gone to get where you are now. You will have to put in some work, but things will work out some way or another, even if unexpectedly. The only thing you can ask of yourself is to do what you can. You are capable or much more than you might think, and with a little self motivation, you’ll get to places you never imagined. Hell, even adults still don’t know what they want to do with their lives a lot of the time.

 Most importantly, you will be okay.

There will be nights where you think you can’t handle everything that’s thrown at you. Sometimes you will fail a test or disappoint someone. There’s never going to be a guarantee of things going as you planned. This is all trivial, believe it or not. Take a look at yourself for a moment and think about all you’ve been through. Heartbreak, pain, loss, and sleepless nights are probably all stamped on your adolescent résumé. You’re here now, and you’ve made it so far (you go, Glen Coco!). Be excited about all the things you’ll encounter! There are so so so many people you haven’t met, and every day gives you the opportunity to change your life however completely you want to. Take chances and most importantly, take it all in. This is the youngest you’ll ever be again and you’ve got so, so much ahead of you. Good luck, and go make this whole thing worth it.

                                          Love always, Annette Marie.

Letting Go Is Often What You Need In Order To Grow

This is a reprint of an article by Mastin Kipp from one of my favorite blogs The Daily Love. I have always  loved how Mastin sees the world and I enjoy starting my morning reading his insights. As I was reading this morning’s Daily Download, I knew I had to share it with my readers. I agree with him that it’s so important to  reflect on one’s current situation; in relationships, jobs, family, and life in general. I hope you enjoy Mastin’s perspective as much as I did!

I’ve had many growth spurts in my life. Many. Some have resulted in massive growth, some have been a precursor to temporary defeat. Either way, growth – if we want to be happy – is the name of the game. I’ve always known this to be true, but it was hammered home for me by my friend and mentor Tony Robbins. Tony says that, “Progress equals happiness.”

This means that we are happy when we are making progress toward our own outcomes, goals and most importantly, feelings. One of the patterns I’ve noticed within the growth cycle is that before a major expansion comes the need to let go of certain people, places of things in your life. Think of it like a rocket ship. When the ship takes off, it has powerful rockets and boosters to get it to break away from Earth’s gravity. But once it’s in space, it has to jettison some of the equipment that it used to take off because it doesn’t serve the rocket on the rest of the journey.

This isn’t to sound cold or harsh, but rather to point out that when you grow, sometimes what’s holding you back isn’t your potential, but what’s around you. The seed outgrows the shell. The butterfly outgrows the cocoon. And in life, we are either growing together, or we are growing apart. This is true in romantic relationships. This is true in business relationships. This is true in friendships and all forms of human relationships.

There’s nothing wrong with growing apart. It could simply mean that your work with those in your life that are moving on is done. And it could mean that there’s new work to do with new people who have yet to enter your life. Don’t judge it and don’t stop it from happening either.

There’s nothing better than a clean break. And don’t get all spiritual ego on me either. Just because someone might be leaving your life doesn’t mean they are “less” spiritual than you are. It just means they are now on a different path and in a different place with new work to do.

 How can you identify people you should let go of?

 Here are some questions:

Who do you find yourself having to not be yourself around?

Is there anyone in your life that you used to have a bunch of things in common with but now you don’t?

Do you find yourself just being polite around certain people and not telling them how you really feel with a sense of emotional intimacy?

Does anyone in your life make you feel badly about things that light you up or make you happy?

 Chances are it might be time to move on, or at least get a little space.

~ Mastin Kipp, from The Daily Love

I hope this “Food for Thought” helps you in your journey to live your life fully. This is one of my goals for 2014. I have spent too long holding on to things and now is the time for a fresh and clean start. I love the way Mastin puts this into perspective and I hope you did too. Did this article make resonate with you? I would love to hear your thoughts on this!

A note from Maria …

After Julia’s heartfelt note last night, I don’t even know where to begin!  For the last couple of months I have gotten to know Julia and now I completely understand why people love and appreciate her so much. She is one classy lady and one tough act to follow. I will do my best to make her proud  and continue with the amazing job that she has done until now. I have big shoes to fill so please bear with me while I learn!

I will be updating the About Me page and there you will be able to read more about my background and life. Throughout the months I will share more  about me, my thoughts and views on different things. The one thing I forgot to mention in the About Me page and I want to emphasize is that I am always striving to learn and improve as a person. PLEASE, I want to hear from you. I would love to know what you want to see more of on this blog, what you miss and any other comments/suggestions that you have. I love hearing and interacting with my readers and the more I know about you, the better I will be able to serve you.

I debated whether to include a picture of myself because I tend to be a very private person. However I think it makes things more personal and real if you can actually put a face behind the words (and deals :)  ). So here goes a picture of me, taken at the bottom of the Moraga mosaic staircase while exploring the beautiful city of San Francisco, California. My sister Lisa lives in Alameda so I am blessed with the chance to visit the City a couple of times a year. Definitely one of my favorite places ever.



Thank you for welcoming me into your home and giving me the opportunity to be a part of your lives! I look forward to many years of getting to know you and share with you.


A note from Julia…

I’ve written this post in my head time and time again over the last couple of months.  Every time I’ve tried to put “pen to paper” the words just don’t seem to adequately express my feelings.  I guess that’s because my feelings currently are so very mixed and I can feel a myriad of different emotions just as quickly as I can blink my eyes it seems.  You may or may not have noticed, some big changes have been made behind the scenes here at The Frugal Find.

Let me explain…

Almost 4 years ago I started this blog as a hobby, a place to share what I was head over heals excited about – frugal living and couponing. My friends tuned in, they told their friends, who told their friends, and this blog was born.  My first month of blogging saw about 3,000 unique visitors and within no time we were sharing deals with upwards of 100,000 readers!  However I had no idea this info was even being tracked, blogging as a “business” wasn’t a concept I was even aware existed at that point.  I just knew more and more comments and emails were coming in, you were all craving this information and I was learning the ropes along with you.  Then there came a point in our family’s journey where we were called to a major step in faith and very quickly this blog become an everyday part of our lives and a part of our testimony. You can read more about  How The Frugal Find Started here and here. So much of what I wrote then still applies today, such as…

When you’re living a life of faith, even as weak as I have been, you WILL be ok.  It’s a pretty well calculated risk when you’re depending on God’s promises.  He is ever faithful and when He says something He means it, period.

What do you dream about doing with your life?  Where would you love to see your family at in 5, 10, or 15 years?  What are you doing to accomplish those dreams?   I can remember literally feeling like the way were living was the way life was going to be forever – like a hampster in a wheel.  Several years ago I remember waking up in the middle of the night feeling so desperate and thinking this is it – we’ll never get out from under this debt.  The truth is that there is freedom and nothing in life is permanent, and the things that are can appear vastly different if you choose to have a different outlook on life.

When we first started on this journey, we received questions like this from people very close to us…

Surely God would tell you where to go next BEFORE he asks you to step out in Faith, wouldn’t He? Surely He would want you to have a plan in place first, right? Surely, you are rushing into this. You have bills. You have children. What are you going to do?!

Our response was and is to this day…

God has told us to step out in faith.
God has told us to depend on Him.
God has promised to provide for our needs.
God has blessed us with a peace that surpasses all understanding.
That is all we know, and so we go.

A few months back we took another step in faith and stepped out into another portion of HIS story of our lives.  At this point in time we are no longer the owners here at The Frugal Find.  I came to a point where it was very clear that my time here had come to an end.  I said no, it couldn’t be.  I fought tooth and nail to make it work, I loved what I did and this was what God had called us to do as a family.  Right?  Yes that’s right.  It was – for a season.  That season has now passed and a new season has arrived.

Let me tell you what this season looks like for us right now, because that’s all I know is the here and now.  Step by step. Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. Psalm 119:105  Step by step as the Lord leads, we may not have a flash light to shine down the road but we will be able to see clearly each step we take in faith.

It’s now the time to give you the big news.  This is where it get’s exciting.  After a lot of prayer and MANY interviews we have passed the reigns here are The Frugal Find onto a very sweet lady name Maria.  In fact she’s been in charge here now for almost 2 months.  The transition has been very smooth and now that we’ve been able to share this important announcement with you she’ll be taking a bolder approach as the blogger behind TFF and sharing more about her and her family from here on out.  I just know you’re going to love her, we do!

Mr. Frugal and I have taken the summer off to regroup, refocus, and LOVE ON OUR KIDDOS!  They’ve sacrificed quite a bit, anytime you own your own business the hours of the day roll into the night and you realize you haven’t stopped working – even when you’re spending time with your family.  Vacations become working vacations and dinners out are still interrupted by this email or that Facebook update.  I’ve lost some time with my kids that I’ll never get back and that breaks my heart HOWEVER that was a season that we were called to, very clearly.

The next few months after that are unknown for us, but it very likely includes Mr. Frugal working a part time job and going back to school and me being a full time stay at home mom.  That’s always been my hearts desire and I am excited beyond words that it’s come to be a reality for us now.

As we look back at what The Frugal Find has provided for our family we are flabbergasted by the blessings that have been poured out on our family.  You, our readers have been an enormous encouragement to our family.  You’ve supported us from day 1 and we are forever thankful to you.  Once again, there aren’t words to express my feelings at this moment but I hope you understand that we have loved every second of sharing our lives with you.  I have some exciting ideas in mind to fill the hours while the kiddos are in school and I’d love to have you keep in touch with our family.  You can add me as friend on Facebook or email me anytime at julia wessels at gmail.com (remove spaces).  I’d love to hear from you!

For now you’ll find us…

Going on field trips with my kiddos…

Going to the rodeo with Mr. Frugal…

Remodeling our kitchen (DIY!)…

Travis Beach

Spending time at the beach…

and doing LOTS of this!

You may even see me around here from time to time :)

We may never have all the answers.

My heart is aching.  I know the heart of our God is aching.  I also believe the children are playing joyfully in His presence – laughing, dancing, and singing.  I’m with most of you though, I still can’t help but wonder WHY?!  My heart is broken today.

I posted the following on Facebook a little while ago…

As a mom today is just too painful to think of anything other than the pain the families in CT are experiencing. We’ll continue to blog and post deals, but please understand that using silly words today like “hot! coupon! deal!” just makes my stomach turn. All I want to do is hold my kids and pray.

But after talking with Mr. Frugal we’ve decided to take the rest of the day off. We will be shutting down here at TFF for the rest of today out of respect for the children’s lives that were lost and for the mourning families. There just isn’t anything worth our time more than prayer and loving on our own children.

I don’t know why.  We may never know why.  However let this be a reminder that we don’t know when we’ll take our last breath.  We have a loving Savior who waits with outstretched arms.  He has a gift for you.